well,

sometimes it's difficult to differentiate between confident and exaggerated

and it's also difficult to distinguish between optimistic and disparaging

what should we do?

how come to be humble in good way is extremely difficult?

how can we be confident without being exaggerated?

and how can we be optimistic without disparaging others?

hmmmm......

life is (still)fair

there is a time when someone can get something that he or she wants
and there is a time when someone can't get what he or she wants
meanwhile, no one can get everything what they want
there is only one choice for a lot of choices in our life
IF you can get everything that you want, well, congratulation
but if not, that's the truth....

sometimes we think that life isn't fair for us
but, how can you say that?
what about those who can't eat in a day?
what about those who can't drink fresh water?
what about those who can't have place to be with their family or friends?
what about those who can't have place to have a rest?
what about those who are'nt sure they can see tomorrow, take a breathe, see the sunlight, hear the birds' chirp, feel the wind blows, and walk in the land?
what about those who can be honest with them selves?

at the end, life is fair...
if you think that you're poor, take a look at the people who can't eat
if you think you aren't happy, take a look at the people who lost their family/are separated from their relatives/are discriminated
if you think that you're not pretty/handsome enough, take a look at the people who have disability in their body
if you think that your life isn't worthy, take a look at the people who are dying
if you think you are useles, learn from somebody who can survive and struggle although they aren't rich/smart enough
if you think that you aren't perfect and too complicated, take a look at the people who can live their life simply and humbly

the fairness of life depends on how you can see it closer
use your eyes, heart, ears and mind thoroughly
then do something with your hands, legs, and body sincerely
be "a useful" person for others is more than just be a perfect creature in this world
and always be greateful for everything that you have right now, even it's the bitter one

marvelous of Asia

hello hey hoooo...I've just joined a univ program called Global Leadership Program which was held in Sophia Univ, Japan. the program's participants were from 5 Jesuit universities in East Asia. I was so lucky to be participated in that program since I didn't know anything about that kind of program, lolz, and that was my first time to go abroad.wohoo!! :D
the program was held on August, 5th - 11th 2012 and although it had ended still it gave me a lot of experiences and challenges to improve myself better in the future. well, I don't want to brag a lot about that program but that's true, the program was soooo challenging because it asked serious thinking in the middle of my mixed up mind. haha,I was thinking about my thesis and at the same time I HAD TO think about the presentation in that program and so on. at least I had done my best, well not really my best too, but it still needed lots of improvements though.
the important part of the program was broadened the friendship with people in somewhere out there :DD,,it was fun so far. although the bitter was also occurred, still some sweets happened through it. rock on!! :D

Passengers

we are the passengers

from nowhere

gather in a very huge ark

we sail everyday to see

different seas of different continent

when the journey is complete

we say goodbye for a moment

but someday we will see each other

sail and go to the eternal sea

together

thank you so much guys for the good time in marvelous country, sharing, laughing, and so on. see you around someday :),, \m/